Sunday, June 21, 2015

Room for Rent, Tunbridge Vermont

June 21, 2015

Here I sit, in the “Room for Rent” bedroom of my brother and sister-in-law’s 180 year-old Vermont house. It’s a gorgeous, funky old house. There is so much love and so much character in this house, it permeates from every crack and crevice. It’s a treasure trove of their lives, and of the people who owned it before them. When they moved in, they had agreed to keep some of the furnishings and found some extra’s the previous owner left for them. It’s chock full of wonderful things, and it smells like clean, dry wood; as soon as I walked in through the back kitchen door I could smell the wonder of it all. “My” room they call the Window Box Room, and it’s mine should I ever need a Vermont get-away. It’s a lovely room – complete with wonderful window box and antique painted wooden sleigh bed. Yellow daisy wallpaper lines the walls, a beautiful antique dresser with china knobs is against one wall, along with the sweet little antique desk (vanity) I’m writing at now. The windows over the window seat are open wide, letting in the sweet, cool air. Now and then a car passes on the road in front of the house; the town of Tunbridge sleeps as I type. The wonderful white noise of a small fan stirs the air from the other side of the room. For tonight, all is well in the world. I have no cell phone service, no Internet connection, and it’s me doing what I like best – writing in a place that stirs my imagination and makes me feel like writing my thoughts.

This is day three of my grand vacation. Backing up to day two, that funky room in the Comfort Inn & Suites in Queens. In the morning, I walked the neighborhood taking pictures, taking in the sights and smells, noises of New York City. It was h a hot, muggy, overcast day. Bobby and Betsy actually got to the room before noon, so after a proper greeting, we headed to the New York Deli around the corner. A cool store, crammed full with every need a person could possibly have, but also fresh baked goods (delivered from a local bakery from what I gather). A fresh fruit and veggie stand out front, a deli inside that served deli meats or sandwiches. It advertised itself as a 24 hour Italian deli, but as far as we could tell no one there was of Italian descent – Middle Eastern most likely, but not so much Italian. We hung out in the room after that and had the debate of staying one more night in the city, and seeing the sights in Manhattan today (Saturday). After a check on the availability of our room, we opted out of staying. It seems the clerk felt it would be okay if we stayed another night, but for $50 more than we had stayed the previous nights. Hence our drive to Vermont today.

After that quiet afternoon we needed to get ourselves to Forest Hills Stadium. Adventure time! We had to figure out connections via mass transit for a few reasons – first, parking was said to be minimal a few blocks from the stadium, secondly, if we gave up the parking spot we had at the hotel, the odds were we would not get another close by. And third – the cost of the cab the few miles to the stadium was $45 each way. MTA one out! Bobby’s very smart phone told us we needed the Q11 for 14 stops, a few blocks walk, then to pick up the Q23 for 7 stops. Lo and behold, we managed! I had seen a sign where we could purchase metro cards, and I had seen signs for the bus stops. The adventure started when we got off the second bus – which had been detoured because of the concert. We ended up walking ¾ of the way around the stadium and finally ended up where we needed to be. But before we got there we were a little unsure of where we were going. We passed through very upscale houses, which got more and more posh as we walked. It was incredible – a slice of life I don’t know much about for sure. These houses backed up to the stadium, and some bordered the very private country club. Forest Hills used to be where tennis matches were held, and it has recently been re-purposed for special concert venues. As we waited for the gates to open we decided we had earned a really cold beer, and stopped in Dirty Pierre’s at the corner of Burns Street. A fun and quirky place, we were able to stand at a table outdoors and people watch. NYC is fabulous for people watching! More walking led us to the stadium, and up into the stands for bleacher seats. It was a really good concert; Van Morrison’s only North American/US stop this year; next he’s off to Europe somewhere – Norway, I think.

Let me stop in my recounting for a moment. Right now a gentle rain has begun to fall. I can feel the change in the air, both in temperature and in smell – the air smells the way summer grass smells up north when it rains and gets damp and green; mossy smelling. It’s a beautiful, earthy, rich smell. The sound of it is almost hypnotic with its steady, quiet rhythm. It’s fully dark outside the screened windows – as it should be at 12:30 at night, and part of me wants to look out and see it fall; the other part is just comforted by the comfort of being in a warm, dry house.

Now, back to Forest Hills and the concert. It was nice – really special, and my brother was able to check off an item on his bucket list. I am so happy to have been part of that. He told me later, back at the hotel, that it seems wrong that bucket list items should be over so quickly. I told him that really, while he was taking part in the event it was just normal time; it is just because it was so special it seemed so quick. The stadium was pretty packed, the sound was fantastic, and the couple next to us were great – he kept handing over his binoculars for us to see the stage better; what a kind thing for him to do! It was a long, slow walk out of the stadium. There was only one exit for all those thousands of people, which was not a great deal of fun, but it all worked out. I am thinking there is just one exit because of the people in those beautiful houses – they don’t want all those people spilling out into their quiet, peaceful streets.

Personally, I have always had a great respect for people in uniform. I would not be able to do the job they do. I think that maybe it would be really helpful, however, for the police officers manning and blocking barricades and detours surrounding a place like Forest Hills to be told a bit more – such as which direction the entrance is, where one might go for more information, how to get to the bus stops, etc. We were told by more than one officer – sorry, I can only tell you about this barricade, or the Long Island Express. It was a really cool event, not a bad venue, but it was also unorganized chaos for the most part. More help might be nice for future events!

I have dubbed myself the Queen of MTA for getting us back to the hotel after the concert. Bobby said I am the Queen of Queens MTA J. We had to reverse our steps, but because our original bus had been detoured, we really did not know where to get back on the bus! We walked a bit after consulting the very smart phone, and it was directing us to the E-train, then the Q11 bus. As we started walking in what we hoped was the right direction I noticed a bus that said Q23. We decided to get on and see where it went – after I asked the driver its final destination. It turns out it was the same place we had actually caught the bus earlier in the evening. We walked the few blocks to the place we got off the first, original bus, and voila; there it was – the right stop, and eventually the right bus came (last one for the night – wow, was THAT ever timing!), and we got back, safe and sound. Adventures in MTA done.


Today we left Queens and NYC fairly early; to a whole lot of traffic. I would not care to drive there; I would if I had to, but I am not a big, bad, brave, adventurous driver – I am more defensive than offensive! We made it out, and in Connecticut decided to take the scenic route north. We ventured through quaint little towns, past rolling hills, forests, rivers, etc. It is beautiful country, and it made me really happy riding today. We stopped in Connecticut and Massachusetts and gathered a few rocks for a project I am working on. We went for dinner on Killington at a place called Peppino’s Italian Ristorante. Great food, fun atmosphere, wonderful waitress, and all around really happy time. Which leads me to here and now, sitting in this lovely, peaceful room feeling sleepier and sleepier. Tomorrow we have more adventures planned in beautiful Vermont. I am experiencing a great contentment and peace of mind right now. I feel so happy to be here and I am so relaxed. Right now, I have not a care in the world except for ending this post, taking out my contacts, brushing my teeth and crawling into the lovely bed behind me. It is calling my name – Kim, come sleep now. Goodnight from Tunbridge, Vermont.

Thursday, June 18, 2015

Open your mind, Travel

June 18, 2015

I traveled today to New York City. I am staying at Comfort Inn & Suites on Redding St. in Ozone Park, (Queens). It was a decision finding a hotel – close enough to where we need to be tomorrow, close enough to the airport, etc. I am so relieved to be out of Florida and the heat we are experiencing, and already so far I’m so much cooler. Tonight is a little drizzly – 60% chance of rain and temperatures in the 60s.

I do not have an agenda today or tomorrow morning. I did not really feel like travelling to Manhattan to see the touristy sights; another trip, maybe, but not just now. My brother and sister-in-law are joining me tomorrow and we are going to see Van Morrison in concert at Forest Hills Stadium just a few miles from here. Such a great opportunity; chance of a lifetime, since this is the only North American concert venue this year! I could have flown in tomorrow, but I am really glad I flew in today. The flight was wonderful, and the hotel sent a free airport shuttle. That was the beginning of the true adventure. First, let me back up just a second and say New York City, to one not in the know of public transportation, or even familiar with a more urban lifestyle, can be a bit intimidating. I was determined not to be subdued; a decision I made consciously about 10 years ago, and I faced today’s adventure willingly. I found my luggage and then was uncertain how to proceed – a very kind woman directed me toward AirTrain – a free train service that circles JFK Airport and adjoins some of the surrounding city train lines for the same kind of fees locals pay to use the Metro system. Super convenient if you are a local traveler, or an employee of the airport. I think none of us ever give much thought to those who do all those jobs at the airport we just sort of take for granted or don't ever see. On the train everyone was on their phone. I remember my friend Helena saying that about subways/trains in Stockholm; there is so little personal contact or eye contact anymore. All that ran through my mind as the train rolled on; the workers and their lives; where they lived, how they lived - how they spent time on these trains daily. Random odd thoughts. Anyway, I ended up where I was supposed to be – at the Shuttle Service which stops for most of the local hotels at the very edge of the airport grounds. ….and I waited….and waited. Eventually the shuttle arrived and the driver loaded up our bags – another couple had joined me in the wait. When Van-man pulled up I noticed a dent in the driver’s front fender – the couple and I exchanged glances, and buckled seat belts. Van-man hopped in and started to take off, only to be flagged down by another driver waving his arms windmill style. It seems Van-man forgot to close the cargo door in the back. Unh oh. Again, the couple and I exchanged glances and we all raised our eyebrows and tightened our seatbelts. And off we went. Van-man thought it would be nice to share that he had done that once about five years ago and the guests bags had fallen out; before he could circle back and get them someone had stolen them. All was fine, though; insurance paid for the woman’s lost articles – a payout of $700, because she claimed she had a very expensive watch in her bags. Alas, we were saved from a similar fate – our doors were closed safely. NYC driving is not for the faint of heart – I was really glad I was not the one driving! Eventually we did make it safely to the hotel – down a one way street, seeming not at all like the picture on the Internet, but ah well. Van-man adventures were not quite complete, however – a cab driver was blocking the entrance to the driveway. Van-man honked his horn. That is a little tame – he repeatedly jammed his hand down on the horn and hollered out the window at the drivers, hollering at us in the back that this was the fourth time today that had happened. The cab driver was in no hurry and proceeded to finish loading the bags of whoever was in the cab. They glared at each other a minute more and Van-man barely missed hitting the back bumper of the cab. He jumped out, hefted our bags out and took off. That was that.

So I check in. And the elevator is broken. Hm. I lug my bags up the stairs; second floor, thankfully. The clerk asked Van-Man, who appeared from nowhere, to help me – he hollered that he had an airport pick-up. I told them it was fine; I got it. I got this NYC attitude down – just sayin’! The room is not The Ritz. It actually smells a little funky – like someone used to smoke in here, more than once, and maybe there were dirty feet involved – still, it’s clean, and the air conditioning works. So I decided I would be a sport, doctored the air with jasmine essential oil, changed my shoes and decided I was going for a walk, but first – food! I ended up at Aldo’s II Pizzeria and Restaurant on Cross Bay Blvd. I started to order NY pizza, but then I saw calzone…and then pepperoni rolls. It was heavenly. I ate it right there at the pizzeria (the restaurant section was closed off; too early, perhaps?) And I ate the whole Pepperoni Roll, and washed it down with a Budweiser; not my typical beer of choice. As I was finishing up, Aldo himself walked by and said “How you doin’” and it was so quintessentially NEW YORK it made me smile! I only knew he was Aldo because one of the guys making dough called him by name. Aldo is a small man, very elderly, apron intact, full head of white hair; one of those people that just is so really real and so stereo-typically everything you imagine of a pizzeria owner it was almost unreal.

Fortified I started walking. The streets around here are hugely busy; the streets are not in a typical grid; they angle off in weird directions. Back in the neighborhoods, though, it’s a little different. Narrow two-story houses, some with a tiny bit of garden, some not, some with minuscule driveways, some not – all with street parking out front. They are not row houses; not linked together as one building, but they are really close together. Some plots of grass are so lushly green and full; I recognized it immediately as grass from my childhood- cool, green thick carpet that would feel so good to bare feet (not like itchy, spiky Florida grass that houses those nasty little uber-viscous red ant creatures, but the real-deal grass!). Hostas are blooming, petunias, impatiens, other beautiful flowers. Rose trees, healthy thick junipers; a few branching larger hardwood trees, but not too many. I fell in love with this spectacular tree – a weeping spruce. The gentleman who lived there happened to be on his porch, and at first he was a little leery, but when I expressed how fabulous I thought his tree was he softened up and told me there are several in the neighborhood, but his is called the “monster”. There were yards that were untended; bare patches of earth, dusty cinder blocks strewn around, broken or rusted iron railings leading up the stoops of some. There were very few people out and about, but it was the middle of the day. I am so intrigued by city life. I am pretty confident I would not like it, but I kept thinking of all the people who live here and all the living going on behind those doors. House after house, and on some streets neighborhood bars or deli’s, then more houses. Some streets have really neat brick patches on the sidewalks, others are broken and dirty. Variety is certainly the spice here!


A light drizzly rain drove me back inside and now I am in for the night. I’m in a strange city and walking around now is probably not in my best interest. Tomorrow I am back out with my camera to record some of the images that catch my eye. It’s amazing to me that birds still go on singing and living in all the trees – I could hear them twittering and chirping to each other, and several fluttered down in front of me, perhaps seeking tidbits, or just wanting me to look at them. Birds are birds; city or country, north or south. Life is a fascinating, beautiful thing. Each day is a grand adventure; we just need to open our eyes, open our minds to possibilities and live.